Operation “In” Gratitude
Has anyone else ever noticed that when you separate the word ‘ingratitude” from its first syllable, it becomes “in gratitude”? A 180-degree change in meaning, with the simple detachment of a prefix!
This leads me to question: If it’s so easy to make the shift on paper, could it be just as easy to make that same shift in my personal outlook?
I think the answer is “yes”. Like the flip of a switch that transforms a room from dark to light, the flip of the switch in my heart can make the difference between chronic misery and total contentment.
Example: I lost my job in a layoff last October. My husband suffered a knee injury at his job the very same week and has been out of work ever since. By choosing “ingratitude” I could rightly say, “This economy’s a disaster, our financial outlook is grim, and p.s., I can’t believe that after 20 years in the workforce and an advanced degree, the Department of Labor is telling me I’m only entitle to xxx a week! However, if I choose to move in gratitude, it’s just as easy to say, “Thank God I have the safety net of an unemployment check, that my husband can collect workman’s comp, and that we still have a roof over our heads and food on the table.” (And p.s., last year’s financial setback could translate to this year’s tax return!)
My situation is minor compared to that of so many others. I think of the hundreds of thousands in post-earthquake Haiti who are suffering beyond comprehension and yet are still praising God…
I’ll admit this “be thankful in all things” idea isn’t exactly original. Some might even call it cliché. But I’m convinced that when put to the test, it’s possible to grab hold of gratitude in every situation. The key to living in gratitude isn’t the stuff for which we’re grateful – rather, the key is to recall the One to whom we’re grateful. Job of the Bible said it best: “We take the good days from God – why not also the bad days?” [Job 2:10, The Message] Job, who lost his kids, his entire estate, and his health, was able to step back from the horror his life had become and still bless God, acknowledging that God gives and takes away.
I think it’s that momentary detachment (just like the prefix) that enables us to acknowledge not only what we’ve been given, but the One who gives it. The result? Living “in gratitude.”
Lisa
Lisa Schell